I chose the 3mm silver wedding band to honor my Dad. My Dad wore his wedding band that is very similar to what I recently choose through Holden. I choose to order this band because my Mom now wears my Dad's ring. This white gold ring reminds me of what a special bond I had with my Dad and I wear this ring with my original wedding band as a tribute to him. It gives me great comfort and reminds me that he is with me. It may sound crazy but I wouldn't trade this ring for anything.